Behind the Scenes: What You Don't See in Dog Training

You see me arrive with a treat pouch and a bag of kit.

You see an hour of training, some progress, a few laughs, and a dog who's tired in the best possible way.

What you don't see is everything that happens before I arrive and long after I leave.

I'm not sharing this to complain. I love what I do. But I think understanding the full picture helps explain how fear-free training actually works, and why it's about so much more than the hour itself.

The Planning Starts Months Ahead

Group classes don't just happen.

Before a course begins, I've already mapped out what the next few months look like. What does each week need to cover? How does each session build on the last? Where will the dogs be developmentally by week four, week five or week six?

Then I plan each individual session. Which exercises? In what order? How do I keep a room full of puppies or adolescents under threshold while still giving them something to learn?

And then the dogs arrive and do something completely different. So I adapt. Every single week.

A good lesson plan isn't a script. It's a starting point that I'm ready to throw out the moment the dogs in front of me need something else.

Every One-to-One Starts Before I Arrive

Before a one-to-one session, I've read back through my notes. What did we work on last time? What did I notice? What's this dog ready for next, which isn't always what the handler hopes for?

After each session, there's the write-up. My notes - What we did, what I saw, what I'd like you to practise, and what we'll build on next time, and your training plan. 

That's also why I offer one-to-one training as a package rather than a single session. One session can't fix anything. Real change needs time, practice and a chance for me to check in, adjust and support you along the way. Progress is rarely linear, and I want to be there for the wobbles as well as the wins.

The Messages at Stupid O'Clock

I've had messages at 11pm. I've had them at 4am.

Some are from clients who are genuinely worried, and I understand that completely. When your dog is struggling, it doesn't switch off at five o'clock, and neither do you.

But many are enquiries. "How much?" "Can you come tomorrow?" "Can you fix my dog in one session?" Often there's a long conversation, lots of questions answered, and then silence.

I'm a sole trader. There's no receptionist and no office that closes for the night. It's just me, and my phone lives in the same house as my family.

So if I don't reply at midnight, it isn't rudeness. It's a boundary, and it's part of how I stay good at my job.

The Decisions Nobody Sees

Training involves lots of small judgement calls that happen quietly in the background.

Is this dog ready for a group class, or would one-to-one sessions serve them better first? Is today a day to push on, or a day to go back to basics? Is this something I can genuinely help with, or should I be pointing this family to a vet or a different professional?

Sometimes the most important thing I can say is "not yet" or "not me." Those are never easy conversations, but they're always made with the dog's welfare first.

The Kit, the Venue & the Weather

Every class needs equipment. Mats, cones, long lines, enrichment items, treats (so many treats) and spares for when something's forgotten.

And all of it has to live somewhere. The back seats of my van were meant for my children. These days they're stacked high with training kit. My cupboard at home overflowed long ago, so the kit also quietly moved into the shed. I'm not entirely sure where it'll spread to next, but I suspect the second shed is already nervous.

There's setting up before and packing away after. There's checking the venue is safe, secure and suitable. And for outdoor sessions, there's watching the forecast and making the call when it's too hot, too wet or too wild for dogs to learn safely.

My Learning Never Stops

The science of dog behaviour keeps moving, and I want to move with it.

I'm currently studying for a Level 6 diploma in Advanced Canine Behaviour. That means research, assignments a dissertation and a lot of late nights, all fitted around classes, walks and family life. I also keep my canine first aid, insurance and DBS up to date, because you're trusting me with your dog.

None of that happens in a training session. But all of it shapes what happens in one.

So, Is It Really Expensive for "Just an Hour"?

This is the one people don't always say out loud, but I know they think it.

Here's the thing: it's never just an hour.

Sessions regularly run to 75 or 90 minutes, sometimes longer, because I'm far too polite to say "time's up" when we're making progress or you've got one more question.

Then there's everything around it:

• Travelling there and back

• Preparation: reading notes, planning the session, packing the right kit

• The write-up afterwards, with your plan for the week ahead

• Follow-up messages when you have a question midweek

• The kit itself, which I bring whether or not your dog ends up needing it

Add all of that together and "an hour" is often more like three or four.

Then there's what sits behind every session: the learning. Good courses in canine behaviour run from hundreds into thousands of pounds. I genuinely dread to think how much I've spent on my education so far, and how much more is still to come. But it's how I make sure what I bring to your dog is current, evidence-based and kind.

So when you look at the price of a session, you're not paying for sixty minutes. You're paying for the time, skill, knowledge and care that make those sixty minutes worth it.

Why I'm Telling You This

Not for sympathy, and not to put anyone off.

I'm telling you because when you understand what goes on behind the scenes, you can see why good training takes time, why I ask the questions I ask, and why I'll always put your dog's wellbeing ahead of a quick fix.

If you're curious about the walking side of my work, I've written about that in The Reality of Being a Dog Walker and It's Not 'Just' Walking Dogs.

The best working relationships I have are with handlers who know there's a real person on the other end, doing her very best for their dog.

And honestly? I wouldn't swap it for anything.

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